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                                                                                                                                                                                              Ernesto, Philippines





                                                                                                                                                                                            “My wife, Jonnalyn, has been working in Manila as a maid                  The things we are learning are very helpful, especially for
                                                                                                                                                                                            for seven months. We have three children, ages nine, seven,               my children. I teach them everything I learn – especially
                                                                                                                                                                                            and three. My second child, my son Ernesto Jr., is                        Princess Lorraine. I teach them how to clean, how to
                                                                                                                                                                                            developmentally challenged. He has involuntary movements                  separate garbage, the importance of covering food to protect
                                                                                                                                                                                            and we don’t know what they are.                                          it from flies, to cover water to prevent insects from breeding.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I teach them all of it.
                                                                                                                                                                                            I am living as a single father now. I work two jobs. So, I must
                                                                                                                                                                                            schedule my day carefully. When to feed the children, when                I have become the head of the WASH (Water, Sanitation, and
                                                                                                                                                                                            to bathe, when to do laundry and cleaning. I put a lot of                 Hygiene) committee. Facilitating the group has helped me to
                                                                                                                                                                                            responsibility on Princess Lorraine, my oldest.                           overcome some of my shyness.

                                                                                                                                                                                            When EMBRACE began, both my wife and I joined. But now                    I would like to thank ADRA. Without this project, we would
                                                                                                                                                                                            that she is working in Manila, only I go to the meetings. I               not have learned these new things. It has helped my family.
                                                                                                                                                                                            even go to the meetings that are for females only, on my                  And I feel there has been an improvement in myself.”
                                                                                                                                                                                            wife’s behalf. I don’t have a hard time interacting with the
                                                                                                                                                                                            group, even though they are mostly women.

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